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Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:11 am
by Gavin
My poor wife and I have been married 21 years today! Just goes to show, my cunning plan of proposing the 3rd time we met (before she realised what a dick I was) worked.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:16 am
by DeskJockey
Happy anniversary! We're coming up on 20 years since we met, and not long after our thirteenth wedding anniversary.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:39 am
by mik
Congrats Gavin,

Commiserations Mrs Gavin.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:46 am
by DaveE
Wow!

Congratulations!

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 8:14 am
by Ascender
Congratulations both!

Any big romantic gestures planned for today?

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 8:56 am
by dinny_g
Happily Not Married here for 23 years...

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 8:59 am
by Delphi
Congrats!

Been happily married for 3 years (second time around), been together just over 7.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:01 am
by Sundayjumper
Gavin wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:11 am ...proposing the 3rd time we met...
Come on, there's a story there !

(here: recently had 15th wedding anniversary, first met just over 26 years ago, yikes)

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:02 am
by 240PP
Congrats!

Parents 54th yesterday 😎

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:27 am
by ZedLeg
Congrats Gavin

We never married but it'll be 14 years this year.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:46 am
by dinny_g
I always tell people I haven't met the right women yet... :lol:

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:58 am
by Swervin_Mervin
Congrats Gavin.

And shit, that reminds me, mine is just under 2 weeks! :lol: Married 14yrs but together (on and off) for 26 :shock:

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 10:00 am
by ZedLeg
dinny_g wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:46 am I always tell people I haven't met the right women yet... :lol:
No one even expects us to get married or have kids, we're the black sheep of our respective families :lol:

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 10:51 am
by Jobbo
Sundayjumper wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:01 am
Gavin wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:11 am ...proposing the 3rd time we met...
Come on, there's a story there !
Yes, the third date rule is about sleeping together, not putting a ring on it :lol:

It'll be 5 years for us in May. I remember the third time we met... I didn't propose. But I did after about 3 weeks. Thought I was moving quickly!

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 12:01 pm
by nuttinnew
Congratulations :D
(and to everyone else also :) ).

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 12:06 pm
by Barry
dinny_g wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:46 am I always tell people I haven't met the right women yet... :lol:
I tell them to mind their own fking business :lol:

Those women things are expensive, I'd probably have to sell a bike or something..

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 12:34 pm
by nuttinnew
Barry wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 12:06 pm
dinny_g wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:46 am I always tell people I haven't met the right women yet... :lol:
I tell them to mind their own fking business :lol:

Those women things are expensive, I'd probably have to sell a bike or something..
One out, one in.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 1:28 pm
by Gavster
Gavin wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:11 am My poor wife and I have been married 21 years today! Just goes to show, my cunning plan of proposing the 3rd time we met (before she realised what a dick I was) worked.
Congratulations!

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 1:58 pm
by duncs500
Jobbo wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 10:51 am
Sundayjumper wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 9:01 am
Gavin wrote: Thu Apr 13, 2023 7:11 am ...proposing the 3rd time we met...
Come on, there's a story there !
Yes, the third date rule is about sleeping together, not putting a ring on it :lol:

It'll be 5 years for us in May. I remember the third time we met... I didn't propose. But I did after about 3 weeks. Thought I was moving quickly!
We got engaged 2.5 years after getting together and I thought that was moving quickly! :shock:

There are a lot of hopeless romantics on this forum.

Re: Speaking of blooming long time

Posted: Thu Apr 13, 2023 2:44 pm
by 240PP
Been together 3 years, both been married before. Neither of us in any rush to even talk about it. Not least because we’ve both been on the wrong end of a divorce financially. Personally, I think making it official kills the fun a bit too.