I used to be with "it"

[Beany]

I just assumed the latter.

[Jobbo]

I believe tea is the truth or gossip and stems from drag race where they “spill the tea”

However I’m as out of touch as the rest of you lot so fuck knows

it's always good when the explanation includes a word or phrase that you don't understand!

"Drag race", is that some sort of rhyming slang or ah, just thought - is it that drag game show with Ru Paul!?

It’s the Ru Paul show - but I think it predates the show by decades at least. Maybe Drag Race is what popularised it over here?

[Gavster]

I'm in the weird position of knowing all of these terms and phrases as they're very common across social media, however I'm also too old to utilise them without sounding like a bit of a nonce.

[V8Granite]

Don’t let anyone keep you out of the courtyard Gav .

Dave!

[Ascender]

I keep waiting for there to be some sort of reaction against all this sort of crap, but it appears there's no end in sight and I just need to accept I'm getting old.