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So for some reason tonight my wife decided that the X5 is her car, not our car but hers! I asked what she meant, and she said that I should gift her a car (). I explained as I paid for it, am the legal owner and registered keeper, it’s probably mine, as all the cars are. Went down well obviously.

She’s taken massive offense and is now sulking. I’m very pissed off because she did this in front of my daughter, and she asked what I’d do if someone said that to her!? (My answer of I hope my daughter gets a job and buys her own car did not help matters! ), so I may be writing this as my last will and testament.

Basically, “bitches be crazy” is more than just an Americanism.

Just ranting really... it really is cathartic!

Let her call it her car. What does it change?

You own a 50% stake in all your cars.

#becausemarried

#cucked

mik wrote: ↑Tue Apr 09, 2019 11:17 pm Let her call it her car. What does it change?

The facts?

Take relationship advice from Mik, not JL...

In all seriousness, as has been said - you’re married, she owns half of everything anyway, so give yourself an easy time and let her “have” one of them to call her own.

See if it's still hers when the fucker breaks down or needs servicing. Or cleaning.

JLv3.0 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 10, 2019 7:27 am See if it's still hers when the fucker breaks down or needs servicing. Or cleaning.

This.

Is it about her not wanting to drive the Ferrari or M4 ?

We have always had 2 or 3 cars which I've viewed as ours and use based on what's best suited but over the last year my wife has been arsey about using 'her' car.

She is menopausal so I'm trying not to bite but it's a pain in the arse taking an M2 with 2 kids and a dog down a muddy, rutted lane to a rugby pitch in the back of beyond

I just can't imagine any other way the conversation could go other than the following:

Her: "I think the X5 is mine"
Me: "did you pay for it?"
Her: "no"
Me: "is it in your name?"
Her: "no"
Me: "then you're a fucking retard"

Yes - that's why I'm not married and long may it continue!

As a minor aside, this is one of those things that annoys me immensely (not Ian's wife wanting a car). So many things can only belong to one person, despite effectively being joint property. So whenever something needs sorting out it is always "Can we speak to the account holder". Stupid!

I don't think I could muster up enough interest to have an argument about who's car is who's, everyone has their own hill to die on I guess .

OK I'll bite. You've saved the money, paid for it and it's in your name. You really wouldn't feel a sense of ownership over it? Is this one of your nonsensical "woke" things or something? Don't you understand the basic rules of possession?

Btw I really do enjoy people listing off things that don't bother them, like they're above it all

You’re part of a couple that share’s pretty much every aspect of your lives, you also have several cars. To me the one that you use the most is logically your car no?

If the mortgage is in his name is she not allowed to call the house her house?

Just seems kind of petty to me.

There's still a fundamental "Why" to this which is probably more concerning than "Bitchesbecrazy"...

Figure out what she has / is trying to gain by transferring ownership into her name. The comment about your daughter in front of your daughter would have me worried...

Best of Luck...

ZedLeg wrote: ↑Wed Apr 10, 2019 9:26 am You’re part of a couple that share’s pretty much every aspect of your lives, you also have several cars. To me the one that you use the most is logically your car no?

No. It belongs to the person who paid for it. It's an incredibly simple concept to grasp.

JLv3.0 wrote: ↑Wed Apr 10, 2019 7:27 am See if it's still hers when the fucker breaks down or needs servicing. Or cleaning.

Or pulling out of the front of the house when it "just drove itself into the front door".

Cool, at least we can add another thing to the list of things we see differently .

It really would save time to list things we agree on, wouldn't it

I've got motorbikes are fun and Chris Nolan makes good movies. I think that might be it.